His Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof Marriage

A look at the felt needs that most couples have. Harley offers a realistic look at how these needs often go unmet and how they are given as the stated cause of affairs. He points out how the deception of appearing to be one person when you are courting, and reverting to the real you later often leads to significant dissatisfaction. The book must be balanced with Crabb above and a much better understanding of grace. In spite of its faults I would not ignore this book.